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		<title>Comment on Murderer Of Malcolm X To Be Released by Vaughn Footman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vaughn Footman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 02:58:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SH.. Dame Shame!!!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Woman&#039;s Body Found In Hotel Bed Frame [Video] by timethief</title>
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		<dc:creator>timethief</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 19:45:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Who in this day and age can claim to be unaware that women with children at the lower end of the economic scale are more likely to attempt reconciliation with abusive spouses repeatedly? It doesn&#039;t take a rocket scientist to determine that women at the lower end of the income scale do not have the resources to pursue effective marriage and relationship counseling that may lead to an actual reconciliation and the foundation of a healthy relationship. It&#039;s common knowledge that  safe homes for woman and their children who wish to leave abusive relationships  are hard to find.  It&#039;s not surprising that these women feel they have no choice but to stay in a sick relationship. No place to live plus no income plus no way to feed and care for their kids plus no education plus  no job skills doesn&#039;t add up to a feasible plan for escape. 

Adding insult to injury we note that women who are conditioned to be victims of abuse dwell in a paternalistic nation that loudly proclaims equality exists when it does not.   It&#039;s a fact that woman lack the opportunities that men have to better themselves and their families  in America.   It&#039;s  a fact in this same nation that women who work at home are not valued as highly as women who work out of the home and parent too. It&#039;s a fact that working women have still not achieved equality with men doing similar work of equal value. 

I believe we North Americans  are aware that women of all income levels and education levels,  who stay with abusive souses have usually been raised ( conditioned) in abusive homes.  I believe we know without doubt that this conditioning is the result of systemic paternalism.   

It&#039;s my opinion that those who label abused women who stay with their abusive partners as &quot;ignorant&quot; are more comfortable victimizing victims, than viewing their plight with compassion. These deluded pawns produced by a paternalistic society, who assist in perpetuating the abuse cycle doesn&#039;t recognize that if you aren&#039;t part of the solution; you are part of the problem.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who in this day and age can claim to be unaware that women with children at the lower end of the economic scale are more likely to attempt reconciliation with abusive spouses repeatedly? It doesn't take a rocket scientist to determine that women at the lower end of the income scale do not have the resources to pursue effective marriage and relationship counseling that may lead to an actual reconciliation and the foundation of a healthy relationship. It's common knowledge that  safe homes for woman and their children who wish to leave abusive relationships  are hard to find.  It's not surprising that these women feel they have no choice but to stay in a sick relationship. No place to live plus no income plus no way to feed and care for their kids plus no education plus  no job skills doesn't add up to a feasible plan for escape. </p>
<p>Adding insult to injury we note that women who are conditioned to be victims of abuse dwell in a paternalistic nation that loudly proclaims equality exists when it does not.   It's a fact that woman lack the opportunities that men have to better themselves and their families  in America.   It's  a fact in this same nation that women who work at home are not valued as highly as women who work out of the home and parent too. It's a fact that working women have still not achieved equality with men doing similar work of equal value. </p>
<p>I believe we North Americans  are aware that women of all income levels and education levels,  who stay with abusive souses have usually been raised ( conditioned) in abusive homes.  I believe we know without doubt that this conditioning is the result of systemic paternalism.   </p>
<p>It's my opinion that those who label abused women who stay with their abusive partners as "ignorant" are more comfortable victimizing victims, than viewing their plight with comp*****ion. These deluded *****s produced by a paternalistic society, who *****ist in perpetuating the abuse cycle doesn't recognize that if you aren't part of the solution; you are part of the problem.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Larissa “Bootz” Aurora by nathaniel nasty nate harris</title>
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		<dc:creator>nathaniel nasty nate harris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 18:41:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i love tha ones of you in tha red mama and you are simply beautiful thanx for tha time mama ttyl.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i love tha ones of you in tha red mama and you are simply beautiful thanx for tha time mama ttyl.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Woman&#039;s Body Found In Hotel Bed Frame [Video] by Roxanne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roxanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 17:57:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People, Vaughn makes a totally valid point. Why the hell would you let someone stay with you when you have a restraining order against them? Yes, the comment was insensitive the way it was written, but it makes a good point. If someone is violent enough to get a restraining order against them, do not continue a relationship with them!
And Chui, how is that comment &quot;real ignorant&quot;? Like I said, it is insensitive, not ignorant. By the way, the grammatically correct response is &quot;really ignorant.&quot; Also, which book would you recommend reading to cure ignorance?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People, Vaughn makes a totally valid point. Why the hell would you let someone stay with you when you have a restraining order against them? Yes, the comment was insensitive the way it was written, but it makes a good point. If someone is violent enough to get a restraining order against them, do not continue a relationship with them!<br />
And Chui, how is that comment "real ignorant"? Like I said, it is insensitive, not ignorant. By the way, the grammatically correct response is "really ignorant." Also, which book would you recommend reading to cure ignorance?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Romeo Leaves Basketball Behind, Focuses On New Music by Romeo Miller Lands Animated Film, Comic Book Series&#160;&#124;&#160;Boss Up Bunnies Magazine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Romeo Miller Lands Animated Film, Comic Book Series&#160;&#124;&#160;Boss Up Bunnies Magazine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 17:29:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] previously reported, Romeo confirmed that he was starting his own record label and continuing work with his College [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Woman&#039;s Body Found In Hotel Bed Frame [Video] by Chui Karuba</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chui Karuba</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 15:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Vaughn Stupidman....you sound real ignorant, read a book</description>
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		<title>Comment on Woman&#039;s Body Found In Hotel Bed Frame [Video] by Maggie W</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maggie W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 04:18:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are such a sad and evil hearted individual to say such a thing!  Very cruel comment and I pray that you or someone close to you does not meet the same fate. Remember: Be careful what you say as it may come back to haunt you!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are such a sad and evil hearted individual to say such a thing!  Very cruel comment and I pray that you or someone close to you does not meet the same fate. Remember: Be careful what you say as it may come back to haunt you!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Woman&#039;s Body Found In Hotel Bed Frame [Video] by Vaughn Footman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vaughn Footman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 00:30:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that&#039;s good for her. she has an order of protection against him, he gets out of jail and he&#039;s staying with her at the hotel lodge. that&#039;s good for her!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that's good for her. she has an order of protection against him, he gets out of jail and he's staying with her at the hotel lodge. that's good for her!!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Woman&#039;s Body Found In Hotel Bed Frame [Video] by BETTYEJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>BETTYEJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 22:59:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is so sad for the Lady and her family. The ordor should have been a clue that something was wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is so sad for the Lady and her family. The ordor should have been a clue that something was wrong.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Inmate Awarded $95,000 Settlement After Guard Rips Out Gold Teeth by sandy jonson</title>
		<link>http://hiphopwired.com/2010/03/17/inmate-awarded-95000-settlement-after-guard-rips-out-gold-teeth/#comment-5062</link>
		<dc:creator>sandy jonson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 19:03:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>now he can pay child support.......</description>
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